Is it OK to go to a gay bar alone? If you enjoy having a couple of drinks, I would definitely recommend doing so when you go out to bars alone. (Just don’t get too crazy!) The night isn’t a failure if you don’t meet someone or have the time of your life.
What do you wear to a gay bar? Look Hot, Wear Pants
The key to looking hot is comfort. If you feel good, you’ll look good, and generally have a better time. If you need your friends’ help to pick something, get that taken care of between one week to five hours pre-party. Oh, and wear pants.
How many gay bars are in the US? True, there are fewer of them now than at any time in the last 40-plus years. There were more gay bars during the depths of the AIDS crisis, even. On the other hand, there are still over 800 across 46 states, with new ones appearing each year.
How do you pick up gay guys at a bar? Be simple and direct. No need to dance around the topic or make a big deal about it. Ask him out for coffee, ask him to go dancing. Just make sure you keep talking once you have his number so you don’t give him the wrong impression.